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Starting Therapy
A short, clear guide to your first appointment in California, so nothing feels like a surprise.
The short answer
Your first therapy session is a calm 50-minute conversation. Your therapist gets to know you, you share what brought you in at your own pace, and together you begin to shape goals. Whether you meet in West Los Angeles, Pasadena, or by secure telehealth anywhere in California, there is nothing you need to prepare in advance.
If you have never been to therapy, it is normal to wonder what the first appointment will actually feel like. Understanding how it works tends to quiet the nerves before you ever walk in or log on. At Salonia Singh Therapy and Associates, the first session is a real conversation, not an interrogation, and you set the pace.
Here is how it works from the first contact — from the free consultation all the way through to setting your goals.

Salonia Singh, LMFT (License #132413). Trained at Pepperdine Graduate School of Education and Psychology in EMDR, the Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Internal Family Systems, and Brainspotting. She leads a culturally informed, evidence-based group practice serving adults across California, because the best therapy happens when you do not have to translate your world for your therapist.
Every first step begins with a free consultation, so you can ask questions and find the right fit at no cost. Session fees generally range from $150–$220 depending on the clinician and session format. We are an out-of-network practice and provide superbills you can submit to your insurer for possible partial reimbursement if you have out-of-network benefits. We will walk you through exactly how that works during your consultation, before you commit to anything.
A short, free conversation is the easiest way to start. We will answer your questions and help you find the right therapist.
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Your first session is a 50-minute conversation. Your therapist introduces themselves, explains how sessions and confidentiality work, and invites you to share what brought you in at your own pace. Together you begin to shape goals. There is no pressure to tell your whole story at once.
Not much. You will usually complete brief intake paperwork beforehand, such as basic details, consent forms, and a short history. Beyond that, you do not need to rehearse. Arriving with only a rough sense of "something feels off" is completely fine.
Your first step — the consultation — is free. Session fees generally range from $150–$220 depending on the clinician and format. We are an out-of-network practice and provide superbills for possible insurance reimbursement. We share all the specifics during your consultation so there are no surprises.
Yes. We offer both in-person sessions at our West Los Angeles and Pasadena offices and secure telehealth to anyone located anywhere in California. The right format is the one that fits your life, and many clients value telehealth for its privacy and convenience.
You do not need the right words or a tidy story to begin. Take the first step: Book a free consultation
Prefer to talk? Call us at (818) 570-2527.